All these while, everyday is just a normal day for me. I do my stuff, chit chat with my frens and family, plan all sort of activities, etc. I have plenty of time to do things that i like, even if last minute work i still manage to complete it. But, things change right after this day - 1st July 2008.
This was the day where i 1st step into the world of Adult University. Time can be flexible and yet it can be not flexible. Lately have been working so late, and have neglect all my fellow frens. The balances of my time between work, family and friends were not unstable currently, still in the progress of stabilizing it. I feel so sorry to those that i have neglected recently.
As time passed by, I fall in love with Friday Night. This is the time for me to enjoy my life up to Sunday evening. Even if I go back late that night and feel very exhausted, i still feel happy. Coz i know i still have time for myself. The laziness worms that lay inside me always bugging me to go for sweet sleep but the TV program have more control on me. I waited so long to enjoy the movies that i have missed during my working time. I know impossible i can go thru every movie that i missed but at least i manage to release my mild stress.
Saturday is totally a refreshing day for me. I want to do lots of stuff but i couldn't. All of my friends were working. But i dun care, from next week onwards, my dear frens, be aware. ME, tricia, will start bugging you guys, dun reject me ya.. :P coz i love the days after friday but before Sunday evening. hehe..
Thursday, 7 August 2008
Sunday, 1 June 2008
用最成熟的心态来选择自己的朋友
真正的v.s.普通的
- 一个普通的朋友从未看过你哭泣。一个真正的朋友有双肩让你的泪水湿尽。
- 一个普通的朋友不知道你父母的姓氏。一个真正的朋友有他们的电话在通讯簿上。
- 一个普通的朋友会带瓶葡萄酒参加你的派对。一个真正的朋友会早点来帮你准备,为了帮你打扫而晚点走。
- 一个普通的朋友讨厌你在他睡了后打来。一个真正的朋友会问为什么现在才打来。
- 一个普通的朋友找你谈论你的困扰。一个真正的朋友找你解决你的困扰。
- 一个普通的朋友对你的罗曼史感到好奇。一个真正的朋友可以威胁你说出来。
- 一个普通的朋友在拜访时，像一个客人一样。一个真正的朋友会打开冰箱自己拿东西。
- 一个普通的朋友在吵架后就认为友谊已经结束。一个真正的朋友明白当你们还没打过架就不叫真正的友谊。
- 一个普通的朋友期望你永远在他身边陪他。一个真正的朋友期望他能永远陪在你身旁 ！
Saturday, 10 May 2008
Laughter ro release stress....
- There are 3 Male and 1 Female pencils in a box.
Which Male pencil is responsible?
THE ONE WITHOUT THE RUBBER.
2. Woman in bed with husband's best friend, and the phone rings !
'YES'.... OK,BYE' ... she replied.
She turns to her lover and says, THAT'S MY HUBBY,
HE SAYS HE'S NOW PLAYING GOLF WITH YOU !!?
3. 3 Roosters : normal, retarded and a gay.
Normal : cock-a-doodle-dooo !!!
Retarded : doodle-cock-a-dooo !!!
Gay : any-cock-will dooo !!!
4. 3 Guys were introduced to a pretty girl.....
Hi,.... I'm Peter, not a Saint.
I'm Paul, not a POPE.
I'm John, not a Baptist...
The girl replied.. Hi.. I'm Mary, not a VIRGIN.
5. Girlfriends are appetizers .... Tastes good at any time.
Mistresses are Tomyams ... Hot and spicy. Eaten frequently.
WIVES are Maggi-mee. Eaten when there's nothing to eat.!!!
6. Income Tax office asked a Prostitute why she puts her occupation as 'CHICKEN FARMER'.
She replied: 'I RAISED 5,000 COCKS LAST YEAR.!!'
Thursday, 24 April 2008
兩種教
昨天我和一個朋友聊到一句話，我覺得很有意義， 每個人一生中都要信兩種教 ，你知道是什麼教嗎....? 當然不是睡覺 .....^.^
是 不計較 與不比較 .....
人活著都會有許多的慾望，慾望多了，漸漸會慾求不滿， 到最後就演變成為了滿足自己的慾望而去傷害別人 ...
如果我們凡事不與人計較，便不會有口角，也不會勾心鬥角，
如果我們凡事不與人比較，便不會有慾望，也不會欲求不滿，
因此我們做人要謙虛，要知足，更要惜福 ....
我們要把自己縮小，不斷的縮小自己，小到能將自己放入別人眼中，
因為眼裡是容不下一顆沙子的，倘若能將自己縮小到放入別人眼中， 讓別人都能接納你，這樣才是真的會做人，
世界這麼大，每個人都有他的過人之處，
如果我們不懂得縮小自己，只是一味的覺得自己比別人厲害， 這樣永遠都不會成功，永遠都不會滿足，也永遠都不會快樂 ....
因為一山比一山高，所以不要去和人家比較， 這不是要你因此不求上進喔 ..... ，
是要你懂得謙虛 .. 而是要你將心放大， 去包容每一個人，從家人，朋友，甚至陌生人 ....
也許我解釋得不是很好，但我體會很深 ...
如果每個人都能有所體悟，都能放寬心，相信都會過得很快樂 ....
because.......... 知足常樂！
是 不計較 與不比較 .....
人活著都會有許多的慾望，慾望多了，漸漸會慾求不滿， 到最後就演變成為了滿足自己的慾望而去傷害別人 ...
如果我們凡事不與人計較，便不會有口角，也不會勾心鬥角，
如果我們凡事不與人比較，便不會有慾望，也不會欲求不滿，
因此我們做人要謙虛，要知足，更要惜福 ....
我們要把自己縮小，不斷的縮小自己，小到能將自己放入別人眼中，
因為眼裡是容不下一顆沙子的，倘若能將自己縮小到放入別人眼中， 讓別人都能接納你，這樣才是真的會做人，
世界這麼大，每個人都有他的過人之處，
如果我們不懂得縮小自己，只是一味的覺得自己比別人厲害， 這樣永遠都不會成功，永遠都不會滿足，也永遠都不會快樂 ....
因為一山比一山高，所以不要去和人家比較， 這不是要你因此不求上進喔 ..... ，
是要你懂得謙虛 .. 而是要你將心放大， 去包容每一個人，從家人，朋友，甚至陌生人 ....
也許我解釋得不是很好，但我體會很深 ...
如果每個人都能有所體悟，都能放寬心，相信都會過得很快樂 ....
because.......... 知足常樂！
Friday, 18 April 2008
Beloved Programme Coordinator
This is our Accounting courses beloved Programme Coordinator - Mr Zulkliffee. He was surrounded by a bunch of FC members whom have been walking here and there finding him on a special day.
Mr Zul is a funny guy and who like sweet perfune very much. Everywhere he passby, there will leave a track of very sweet perfume smell. At the point of time, you could be able to know that Mr Zul just passby here.
He is a very good lecturer that always willingly to help students. He will spare time for the students even if he has ample of tasks on his hand. In fact, whatever questions u have in mind, dun be hesitate to find him. He can solve everything very fast coz he's a very informative person (especially accounting related information). Because of him, I managed to end my Industrial Training smoothly.
Thanks to this lecturer...
Monday, 31 March 2008
Treasure life before everything was too late
After my hectic mid-exams, finally is friday. I got to go home at least to have few hours to sleep and relax before my second round outting with my jimui. That time while i was driving back home, i was not very concious and felt so dizzy as i was too tired. So i switch on my MP3 as loud as possible to at least being drag away from the sleepiness. Singing in the car was the best solution for me at that point in time.
When i reach Jalan Teluk Pulai, a turning point into my housing area (Tmn Teluk Pulai), I saw a condolence board-pointing a direction into my housing area. That time, i was thinking why in a sudden there are so many people passed away. Immediately when i have a right turn into my house, from far ( 5 houses away) i saw a tent in front of my neighbour's house, with 2 big white lanterns. I was stunned, thinking that who passed away. As i know, that house consist of 2 teenagers and their parents with total of 4 people, and their parent is very young with the age of 50+.
The moment i stepped into my house, my mum told me that Uncle Yap had passed away yesterday (thursday 29/3/2008) when he was having a badminton game in the badminton court somewhere in Eng Ann. The detail situation was not clear, as my mum only get to know that he was collapsed and his friends thought he was only tired. The time when they get to know that he was in danger, it was too late to sent him to hospital. Furthermore, the ambulance was late as usual and the traffic in Klang was terrible and these had also contributed to part of his delayed treatment which lead to his death.
I felt so down at that point in time. This has refreshed my memories during my youth age. When i was small, i like to follow my brother to Uncle Yap's house because uncle likes to buy toys and game for his son to play. And his son likes to invite my brother and another 2 neighbours to play with him, and me of course will stick to my brother and they got no choice but to let me play with them. I remembered that when all of us were hanging around at uncle's house, he'll definately serve us with his son's beloved junk food - chips and all sort of fast food. Of course we would be delighted as most of our parent wouldn't let us to have these food unless on our birthday. So most of us will curi curi makan at his house. Uncle Yap, however, will bring us to the nearby playground to play kites or cyling. He's a very nice neighbour to us. Furthermore, both of our family are the member of a famous club in Klang. We used to join any of the activities held by the club and get to know each other even more detail. Sooner and later, our parent became very best friends, like to hang around in the club and sometimes even organised family trips.
However, until a point of time, all of us lost contact. We no longer joining the club activities and started busy with our school life. In a sudden, everything just end like this and we become "Hi and Bye" friends. We only greet uncle when we saw him. No longer as close as last time.
The last time i saw him passing by my house was last 2 weeks' weekend ( between 15/3-23/3/2008). that time i just wave at him, signify a "HI" to him and that the last thing that i ever did for such a long time. I felt so lost of lossing this such a good uncle. I was so curious, why in the earth that people practising a healthy lifestyle would die of so sudden without any sign? Why is the doctors always encourage us to practise healthy lifestyle and yet people tend to die in their early age? Why people with unhealthy lifestyle would have the opportunity to live longer than those normal people? Is god being equal? Who knows? Only GOD knows.
A piece of advice, treasure the moments u have with everyone beside you. Leave aside every sorrow and misunderstanding that you have with anyone. Stay away from anger and revenge that u have with you. Treasure your life and love everyone beside you. Treasure your life and do not let youself to regret on stuff you have done. Just do what u think is necessary to do and do it with no regret. No one will know when their life will end. Only god knows. So Treasure yourself before it was too late.
When i reach Jalan Teluk Pulai, a turning point into my housing area (Tmn Teluk Pulai), I saw a condolence board-pointing a direction into my housing area. That time, i was thinking why in a sudden there are so many people passed away. Immediately when i have a right turn into my house, from far ( 5 houses away) i saw a tent in front of my neighbour's house, with 2 big white lanterns. I was stunned, thinking that who passed away. As i know, that house consist of 2 teenagers and their parents with total of 4 people, and their parent is very young with the age of 50+.
The moment i stepped into my house, my mum told me that Uncle Yap had passed away yesterday (thursday 29/3/2008) when he was having a badminton game in the badminton court somewhere in Eng Ann. The detail situation was not clear, as my mum only get to know that he was collapsed and his friends thought he was only tired. The time when they get to know that he was in danger, it was too late to sent him to hospital. Furthermore, the ambulance was late as usual and the traffic in Klang was terrible and these had also contributed to part of his delayed treatment which lead to his death.
I felt so down at that point in time. This has refreshed my memories during my youth age. When i was small, i like to follow my brother to Uncle Yap's house because uncle likes to buy toys and game for his son to play. And his son likes to invite my brother and another 2 neighbours to play with him, and me of course will stick to my brother and they got no choice but to let me play with them. I remembered that when all of us were hanging around at uncle's house, he'll definately serve us with his son's beloved junk food - chips and all sort of fast food. Of course we would be delighted as most of our parent wouldn't let us to have these food unless on our birthday. So most of us will curi curi makan at his house. Uncle Yap, however, will bring us to the nearby playground to play kites or cyling. He's a very nice neighbour to us. Furthermore, both of our family are the member of a famous club in Klang. We used to join any of the activities held by the club and get to know each other even more detail. Sooner and later, our parent became very best friends, like to hang around in the club and sometimes even organised family trips.
However, until a point of time, all of us lost contact. We no longer joining the club activities and started busy with our school life. In a sudden, everything just end like this and we become "Hi and Bye" friends. We only greet uncle when we saw him. No longer as close as last time.
The last time i saw him passing by my house was last 2 weeks' weekend ( between 15/3-23/3/2008). that time i just wave at him, signify a "HI" to him and that the last thing that i ever did for such a long time. I felt so lost of lossing this such a good uncle. I was so curious, why in the earth that people practising a healthy lifestyle would die of so sudden without any sign? Why is the doctors always encourage us to practise healthy lifestyle and yet people tend to die in their early age? Why people with unhealthy lifestyle would have the opportunity to live longer than those normal people? Is god being equal? Who knows? Only GOD knows.
A piece of advice, treasure the moments u have with everyone beside you. Leave aside every sorrow and misunderstanding that you have with anyone. Stay away from anger and revenge that u have with you. Treasure your life and love everyone beside you. Treasure your life and do not let youself to regret on stuff you have done. Just do what u think is necessary to do and do it with no regret. No one will know when their life will end. Only god knows. So Treasure yourself before it was too late.
Wednesday, 19 March 2008
Someone special that i respect - HIM
This "someone" is a special guess, which i will later refer as "HIM"
One special day, i agreed to follow a friend of mine to meet up a special guess - HIM. Time of waiting to meet HIM may seems long but my heart was pumping very fast. I have a lot of questions to ask, but none of it seems realistic. And i was afraid that i may asked the wrong thing, and there's go my chance. So, while sitting in the crowds, i was thinking, trying to eliminate questions that doesn't make sense.
Finally, is my turn to meet him face to face. HIM asked me what can HIM help me. I said that i had promised HIM earlier to meet HIM again to asked for some solutions that i had raised out last trip. He promised me that He could resolved all my problems only if i bring the stuff that HE requested on the following trip. Stuff that HE required really make me headache. At that point of time, i was thinking where should i find all these stuff in city. Before i able to voice out, it seems HE look thru my heart. HE told me not to worry as people here could be able to help me, as long as i ask. I look at HIM and HE smiles at me and asked me anything else HE can help.
Then, I asked permission for asking this question since it relates to my sibling. I thought HE wouldn't answer. But lucky me. HE said the special person is already there and is waiting for a notting head chance. At that time being, an Unbelive reaction appears on my face and i look at HIM. Not that i dun believe HIM, i just cant think of if that someone really appeared? HE look at me saying that i shouldn't show disbelief in HIM, HE knows more than i can expect. Both of us were laughing as he and me knew that the disbelief reaction is a sign of ambiguity towards my sibling. What HE told me was, although my sibling does not tells us anything, it doesn't mean anything doesn't going to happen, just give my sibling some space. I was, in fact, felt happy and some kind of relief.
HE laughed and looked at me again, asking if i have any question.
Since i already open up this topic, i took the opportunity to ask abt mine. Immediately HE laughed and told me to prepare the stuff that HE required. By that time, what i want can come true. Even if i want it this year, HE will also help me to grap it. HE asked me with a smily face if i want it now? Everyone in the room was laughing and i felt so embarass. But at least I have clear some of my queries. Thanks to HIM.
But now, i have some difficulties.
Do u know what stuff that i find it hard to get it from a town city like Klang?
Well water, river water and sea water..hehe.. Everyone know that Klang has the most contaminated water supplies. the Sea and River water was extremely dirty and highly contaminated by chemicals, rubbish and, etc. Do i really need to collect the water? Yes, i have to. But in other place, i hope :)
One special day, i agreed to follow a friend of mine to meet up a special guess - HIM. Time of waiting to meet HIM may seems long but my heart was pumping very fast. I have a lot of questions to ask, but none of it seems realistic. And i was afraid that i may asked the wrong thing, and there's go my chance. So, while sitting in the crowds, i was thinking, trying to eliminate questions that doesn't make sense.
Finally, is my turn to meet him face to face. HIM asked me what can HIM help me. I said that i had promised HIM earlier to meet HIM again to asked for some solutions that i had raised out last trip. He promised me that He could resolved all my problems only if i bring the stuff that HE requested on the following trip. Stuff that HE required really make me headache. At that point of time, i was thinking where should i find all these stuff in city. Before i able to voice out, it seems HE look thru my heart. HE told me not to worry as people here could be able to help me, as long as i ask. I look at HIM and HE smiles at me and asked me anything else HE can help.
Then, I asked permission for asking this question since it relates to my sibling. I thought HE wouldn't answer. But lucky me. HE said the special person is already there and is waiting for a notting head chance. At that time being, an Unbelive reaction appears on my face and i look at HIM. Not that i dun believe HIM, i just cant think of if that someone really appeared? HE look at me saying that i shouldn't show disbelief in HIM, HE knows more than i can expect. Both of us were laughing as he and me knew that the disbelief reaction is a sign of ambiguity towards my sibling. What HE told me was, although my sibling does not tells us anything, it doesn't mean anything doesn't going to happen, just give my sibling some space. I was, in fact, felt happy and some kind of relief.
HE laughed and looked at me again, asking if i have any question.
Since i already open up this topic, i took the opportunity to ask abt mine. Immediately HE laughed and told me to prepare the stuff that HE required. By that time, what i want can come true. Even if i want it this year, HE will also help me to grap it. HE asked me with a smily face if i want it now? Everyone in the room was laughing and i felt so embarass. But at least I have clear some of my queries. Thanks to HIM.
But now, i have some difficulties.
Do u know what stuff that i find it hard to get it from a town city like Klang?
Well water, river water and sea water..hehe.. Everyone know that Klang has the most contaminated water supplies. the Sea and River water was extremely dirty and highly contaminated by chemicals, rubbish and, etc. Do i really need to collect the water? Yes, i have to. But in other place, i hope :)
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